Arrrrgh!
Im so confused right now...As a female who has a grandmother that believes that only women needs to do the house chores, im realllllly against the sexist kind of thinking and all that bullshit.
i mean, when ever i visit my grandmother, only the females cook/clean.
a)cooking: Done by my aunts/mummy.
b)cleaning dishes: Done by me/swen/Zhitingjiejie
c)mopping/sweeping: Done mostly by: swen/aunts
*Note that EVERYTHING ARE DONE BY FEMALES (most of the time anyways, for the guys to lift a finger is a miracle)


Hence my mum sometimes complain about the bloody unfair sexistness..
Well, in case you dont know, both me and my sis wash our own lingerie (my sis is 14 this year)
when i ask my mummy why my bro (who is 15) dont have to wash his own..she says cuz he doesnt have mens..
I mean WHAT??!
Like seriously? Girls dont have mens for 365and1/4 days a year what..
Its not that i dont want to wash my own lingering or anything (REALLY), but i really dont feel that that is a good enough reason for him not to wash his own bloody fuxking underwear?
Guys also get wet dreams dont they?! Meaning that just cuz its not preiod blood = clean?
And can you blame a girl for having mens? Like really WTF for me....


thats not the only time she proved sexist lor...
Springclean...
I told her to bring my bro along..
She told me: "Aiyo, he go for what, guys dont go de lah~"
Me: "then he be the first one lah! ROle model for all to see!" *pissed ler lah*
She: "buut..he go also no use what, he know how to do meh?"
I convinced him to go anyway and he did help out....


Another time...
In Malaysia(just only), she got me and my sis to wash our own clothes..
Me: Why never call jiunyeu to wash also?
Mummy TOTALLY gave me the "huh? Guy leh look" *in my point of view*
Mummy: "He asleep what! Further more i already told ahmei(my sis) to help him wash ler."
Me: "Next time get him to wash lah!"
Mummy: "But we are going home in 2 days anyways"
Me: *REAAAAAAAAALLY PISSED* "in 2 days, tomorrow also need to wash what tomorrow get him to wash lah."
Mummy: "....anything"
Like seriously?! He is Sleeping so what? Just now he shower ler never straight away sleep what? Why never get him to wash then? Also he asleep cannot wait till he wake up meh?? Will diee arh? Why the hell must my sister wash for him?!


Seriously, since mummy already knows how it feels like to be treated differently just becuz she is a female, so should'nt she not let me feel it?
Why is she protecing my brother just cuz he is male?
She once said he next time will marry and his wife will do for him..BLOODY HEELL if im ever marry, ill get my husband to share the chores! (unleess im a housewife) LIke seriously! If im working too what makes you think i got the energy to do the housework if you dont huh?
Also if my bro learn these kinda skills, wont cause any harm what? Might help him in future too lor! (NS leh?)


Is it cuz im too sensitive? Cuz my sis doesnt seem agree, she kinda dont care...
BUT SERIOUSLY? Reaaaaaaaaaally confused...